I really should have asked this earlier - what exactly is your experience with eating disorder recovery? Counting BMR calories is the worst possible way to recover from an eating disorder. This is not some ‘fitspo’ blog where I’m going to tell people to eat ‘high-quality’ 1500 calories in the form of unsaturated fats, wholegrain low-salt vegan food, and egg whites. This is where I talk about the necessity of flexibility and acceptance of yourself, in order to break free from the disorders that are killing us.
I hate to burst your bubble, but I did not spend 3 hours staring at my screen trying to think of a reply. Which ‘edit’ do you mean, the one where I inserted a link so other people can read and entertain themselves with your wise words or the one where I mentioned my disordered obsession with reading fitness and nutrition articles?
Also, please, everyone, if I have ever given you ‘wrong’ advice, tell me.
I said this before and you ignored me; if you want to send petty insults, do that to my own blog, not to here. And, if you want to say something mean, can you just get to the point already and either insult my family or tell me to kill myself. Those are the only things that truly upset me. Oh, that, and messages like this:
Yeah, yeah, it’s all true, I’m a fat fuck, I have no friends. Whatever, I get the point. Don’t even bother sending me a message telling me ‘all those things are true’, because I know they are, and someone’s already done that for you.
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